Hi guys! It's been a long time now since my last blog. I would like to apologize to all of you because I am still not finish in preparing my interview with the TiuRaMente. It's not yet finalized,so for now,I will share tips on how to maintain friendships. You will really learn a lot in it especially for those who are bad in having a friendship (Not a romantic relationship! Ha ha ha!) with someone. I get it from a site and I just changed the explanations so you can relate with me. Enjoy!
TIPS ON HOW TO MAINTAIN A FRIENDSHIP:
1. Focus on what you can give to a friend,not what you can get out of a friendship. - A real or a true friend is someone who can always get help from and you can lean on,not someone who wants to be your friend so he/she can have what they want like having gifts during their birthdays,have someone to tease,have someone to gather secrets and reveal it to others,etc. Yeah,it is very true that having a friend is fun,but as a person,you should know your limitations. NEVER use someone just for your own good and fun.
2. Encourage your friend. - This means that never look down and discourage your friend. Always tell him/her that he/she can and be there for your friend. In life,sometimes we win,and sometimes we lose. Even if we lose,keep up the good work and never lose hope. Tell him/her that there are many people around who also love your friend as much as you love him/her.
3. Be willing to forgive. - Don't always have a grudge with your friend for a very long time. It can cause the destruction of your friendship. If God and Jesus know how to forgive people who commit sins,how about you? Of course you should also know. Everyone of us make mistakes sometimes,you cannot avoid it. And if you are a real friend,you cannot handle or say that you can live without him/her because he/she is already a part of your life.
4. Honestly point out their mistakes. - I know that some of you are afraid to tell your friends that they are doing something wrong because they might get angry with you. I also think of that sometimes. What we are doing is wrong. Rather than keeping quiet,we have to tell them the truth. Telling the truth will make them angry but it can also help them to improve and learn a lesson. It is also a way of showing concern,not a way of humiliation.
Oh.it looks like this blog is long enough. Hope you learn something new again. Wait for my next blog! I will just rest and relax for a while. Bye!
"Remember,the greatest gift is not found in a store nor under a tree,but in the hearts of true friends" - Cindy Lew
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